A WOMAN who "couldn't stop cheating" on her husband has revealed that swinging has changed their lives and brought them closer. When Krystina, 38, and Mark, 39, first got together 17 years ago, they had a more traditional relationship. But inwardly, Krystina struggled with the idea of monogamy. Though she loved Mark, she could not stay faithful and had several affairs. When he found out, he was devastated - but it also gave them the opportunity to be honest with one another about what they wanted. As they talked, he realised that he, too, had been desiring other women. They agreed to experiment with non-monogamy, and after research, settled on the idea of swinging.
As a partner, you shouldn't force/pressure your partner into something they don't want especially swinging. I think she might've preyed on the small ounce of him wanting to just try it and then she ran with it and essentially groomed him into it. I feel really bad for him because his self esteem is too low for him to leave her so he puts up with what SHE wants just so he isn't alone